(((puddin)))
I'm sorry your son has relapsed, but your boundaries are more than fair. When I first came here, I was at the point where I had had enough and just couldn't have my son in our home anymore. I was in deep danger of going down with him and making him leave was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. It hasn't been an easy road ... there have been many twists and turns, but neither of us would be where we are today if I hadn't taken a big step back and focused on my recovery instead of his.
I hope your son finds a better path and you can find some peace.
Hugs and prayers ~
deedee