Thank you jons51/50 and to all who sent me a reply. I have attended Al-Anon meetings but I guess I need to get back. I go to AA meetings 5 times a week. I am a recovering A, sober for seven years. So I know how hard it can be to stay clean, but I just want to scream,WHAT is your problem? He's been going to meetings for the last three days,but who knows what happens come Friday.