Originally Posted by
cece1960 
I'm sorry for not stopping in sooner, I know how hard this can be.
I have to say, if you attend meetings for you, and have therapy for you, and he wants a divorce, you can step back anytime you want. No need to go through painful IOP sessions.
Its all about you now...and we're walking with you
(((Hugs)))
thank you for this....I decided to do the IOP sessions for myself even though they are painful. I wouldn't do them if i didn't think I could handle it. If it becomes unbearable next session i think I will stop going, but I only see them helping my understanding. for now (and always) my faith is in God to guide me with what to do.