I know this is a difficult day for you. I know how terribly you miss the baby you gave birth to 24 yrs. ago. Sorry you don't get to celebrate w/ Kasey.
I have learned to accept my sad days, cry, grieve my son and let out the emotions.
Then dust myself off the next day.
Keep faith that one day it will be possible to celebrate Kasey's b'day with her.
My son is going to be 24 also in just 11 days. They are young, they can find redemption.
You are a wonderful mom who loves her daughter and Kasey knows this. Maybe she is just too ashamed to make contact now.