I have decided that sometimes its not codependency but just making things smoother. Who wants drama, "so what' and "oh well" are my new moto's.
I agree, except I don't want to do that at the expense of my boundaries. I don't want to make excuses and therefore accept unacceptable behavior. SO - I find my self in that middle place where it's a bit murky and unclear. If I figure it out, I'll let you know. If you figure it out first, please share!! LOL