If my husband were to read this he'd ask how come I can't be more like you! I'm the exact opposite and almost every single darn time we go out to eat, something goes wrong with my dinner. He cringes when it happens, he knows I'm going to say something and the manger will show up. He and I both worked in restaurants back in the day (he was in the kitchen and I was out front) and we have different perceptions of what's acceptable.
Something I learned from your post is that my husband is co-dependent! I never realized it until now and I just told myself I will not try to fix him... I will not try to fix him... I will not try to fix him. Maybe if I type it out a hundred times I won't start in on him
