Hey Don, I can relate to your wife so well, because I know I need to get well too, My A is my boyfriend and father to our 5 year old little girl. We have been together 7 years this april. Weve split 3 times and just recently are giving things a go again, he still drinks, and I know I have to get help myself, I went to my first meeting last week, it really helped.
Has she ever gone to any meetings? Or let her read some things here, it will really help. Just wanted to offer some friendly words, take care and keep posting. bonbon