Wow japic so powerful and so true. I cant how many times I tried to give to my abf as long s he didnt do what I didnt want him to do. In a way I see it as manipulation trying to manipulate them to do what we believe is the right thing but then it backfires to us. We think we are helping them but in truth we are hurting them but also hurting ourselves so much more.
Thanks Japic!
hugs,
jewelz