Thanks, I just spoke with my husband. He apoligized for his "slip". I told him that I was clear when he came home that there would be no more drinking. And that he is making a choice to end our marriage by drinking and not gettin help. He admitted that he couldn't stop drinking and agreed to call our insurance toll free number to find out about joining a program. I don't feel elated though, I don't trust him that he will go and take this seriously. I read some information on the internet today about divorce in NC. I also plan to attend a seminar on divorce tomorrow night. Earlier today I turned the whole burden over to God and asked him to remove this burden from me. Maybe this is his answer. I will continue to take care of me, and trust that God is with me. thanks