arguments don't interest me.
I don't feel that I need to defend, convince, or explain my point of view, especially my inner processes in sobriety. Or for that matter, I don't feel that I need to listen to anybody else who insists on defending, convincing me of, or explaining why their point of view is superior or even worthwhile to mine or yours.
I like to learn by direct experience. Perhaps others do also. so I do the old "live and let live" mantra....ever since I quit the debating society of sobriety.