I want to set a good example to my husband, and his family and I are committed to his recovery and not drinking around him.
Good for you and his family. That is one thing that made me so angry when my xabf came out of rehab, is that his brothers and dad still continued to drink in front of him and as they were all chugging thier beers they sat a cup down in front of my xabf and me(who was also not drinking) and said here is some sparkling drink(the kind that comes in a wine bottle but is not alcohol). He felt so humiliated that they did that to him. I even talked with his family about it and they said that they will continue to drink and he needs to learn how to handle being around it. Maybe so but not 3 weeks after rehab. Can you imagine?