JT & the gentle ladies of SR,
A day later, I've decided that a swift wack with the skillet is in order. Since you guys are too sweet to administer so I'll have to do it myself. <img border="0" alt="[Fight]" title="" src="graemlins/../graemlins/fight.gif" />
With hindsight, I did have enough warning with feelings of dissatisfaction, self-pity etc. and it led to your classic codependency-anxiety-attack of yesterday. Unfortunately, the other issues of my son's emails, phone calls from the family - were just life's happenings which I suddenly could not cope with....
God had to let me learn a huge lesson!! It's books, live meetings and more importantly a Sponsor (ASAP), steps steps steps for me from now on.
Thank you, thank you, thank OH WISE ONES!
And I'm sorry to say I will be posting more often here too..
Fatcat