Old 03-29-2008, 05:50 PM
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mooselips
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(((Lobo)))
Us moms, well, we take this so hard, trying to save them, and help them, even when they have no respect for us, and treat us in a bad way. But then again, if we really think about it, they're addicts, they do what they do, and that's the bottom line.

The way I'm thinking about this is....you have done ALL that you can possibly do, now it is up to her to help herself.
It's heartbreaking, and frustrating, but prayers are about all you can give her now.


For now...start focusing on you. Pick up some extra meetings, a hobby, a womans group, ANYTHING to deflect your focus from her to YOU.

We CAN have children who are addicts, and still go on living our life, and being happy. Fake it, until you make it.

Hugs from one mom to another,
and prayers for you, and her.
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