Marle,
You are right it is her problem and not mine. Sometimes I think I spend so much of myself trying to keep her on the right path and it doesn't work. It seems she is gonna do what she is gonna do. It just that since she had been doing well, she looks so much better and that makes me feel better. I have to be honest that sometimes when I feel like I am saving her I am actually saving myself. Does that make sense?