Alcoholism is the only disease I know of where someone is willing to die for thier "right to be right".
Its all the ego......the need to be right is what sustains the ego into believeing she has some control over her disease.
There is a question that goes around the rooms all the time:
"Would I rather be RIGHT....and would I rather be happy"?
As long as I know I am right...I can be quite happy....who cares what the other party thinks. If she continues her recovery, she will come to believe that she aint as right as she thinks she is...
and hey, 3 apologies in 2 years is quite a lot. I havent gotten ANY in over 4 years! LOL