Hah Hah - I think I've got it. If you click on the name to see where they are, they turn black from blue. I had lurked everyone but Gipsee out and when I clicked on her, she turned black.
Try it.
Oh..it is very late and we are doing it again <img border="0" alt="[Coffee]" title="" src="graemlins/../graemlins/coffee.gif" />
Hugs