Thanks everyone for responding. His parents didn't want this to happen either. They really like me and wanted us to be together. I just wanted to say goodbye. I dream of the day I put him on the plane and he kissed me goodbye. See you soon hon! This is not a Narconon place but the place has some definite control issues and I'm not talking about regular rules. It's not like he just got there, he's been there for 5 months!!