It's not that he can't pay me, he just doesn't think he should have to.
We're actually talking in the neighborhood of 20K difference if we sell. I had thought about splitting the difference with him and taking 10K less than the law says I should get, with some stipulations. Such as, he pays off the CC debt and furnishes proof of same and proof that my name is off the cards and he comes up with all the other monies awarded to me (back child support, home maintenance, insurance reimbursement) in addition to the payoff on the house immediately.
My peace of mind is worth 10K easily. I just have my doubts if he will agree because with him it is all about control. What do you think a judge will do if I make the offer, he refuses, and he still won't sign to list the house?