Originally Posted by
lggirl 
His family has talked to him but everyone tiptoes around the subject of me.
I can't understand how a rehab that promoted couples counseling to me and told me to keep calling are now the same people calling me manipulative, controlling and a codi.
And does one really stay sober knowing they just left someone behind without saying goodbye...
Those three things stood out to me.
1) If he and his family are tiptoeing around the subject of you, then you are a sensitive subject for all of them, for whatever reason. Ask his family if you want to know.
2) The person calling you those things was influenced by the person you engaged in a war of words. If you really feel the need for closure, call the administrator and ask questions only, make no accusations. The more they talk the more you learn and vice versa.
3) His sobriety has nothing to do with you. It's all about him.