Welcome 22NGone! Glad that you found us! This site has been a blessing to me! There are many here who give out their ESH ( Experience, Strength & Hope) which has embraced my life and let me know that I'm not alone.
You are not alone you have found a great place! With Al-Anon, Counseling and SR I have learned a lot-Maybe trying another route such as one on one counseling might be a trick for you!
Take care of yourself-please keep posting and check out some of the stickies-in the Friends and Family Forum-
Sorry that you are going through this
and glad you are here!