You have your health, your kids and the Rockin' C Ranch...anything else is just "stuff". Let your HP handle it all while you just relax and trust that it will all work out just fine.
And if you see a pair of bunny slippers a couple of rows over and up...you'll know that I'm there right where I can kick the judge with the steel toes if he makes any moves that are not in your favour. If you see him/her jolt upright...well, you'll KNOW.
Hugs
P.S. You are an amazing lady, hope you'll take some time just for you when this is all over.