Ok...since I am not getting an answer to my question...I will stop beating around the bush.
June is turning 50 very soon and Ward is romantically challanged...in fact he heard about this great golf outing on THE DAY and can't we celebrate the following week?
My response was..."NO....sorry Ward...not acceptable. After all I HAVE been married to YOU for 20 years and I EXPECT AND DESERVE a night out. And not at the local pizza joint, thank you!"