Oh yeah, I can relate!! My ex-MIL told me the reason her son (my now EXAH) does drugs is because I'm such a B*&#(!!! I told her had she learned tough love and stopped enabling him 30 years ago neither of us would be dealing with this today!!!
Unbelievable!!!
Boy am I glad I divorced him!!!!
Hang in there!!! You're taking care of you and that's all that matters!
Jen