Old 02-29-2008, 11:33 PM
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laurie6781
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I am so glad you are using your "TOOLS" so well!!!

Since she is living with you at the moment, I don't think it would be out of line to invite her to come along to one of your Alanon or Naranon meetings. Let's face it she's going to to need Alanon also and could become another Double Winner. As you know many of those that are sober today and/or in AA came in through the 'back door' of Alanon, and there are many in Alanon that came in through the 'back door' of AA (me, lol). Just a thought.

A casual "I'm going to a meeting would you like to come?" and let her decide. To me that is not enabling that is just opening a door and giving the addict/alkie an option.

But, I must reiterate your recovery is SHINING right now!!!! You go girl!!!!!!

Love and lots of hugs,
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