Hi,
It's part of the disease and doesn't change over night. the person has to see that they do that and want to work on it.
ngaire
Originally Posted by
NYC17 
There is a lot of talk on here about how alcoholics lie and manipulate so they can keep drinking but what about when they aren't drinking and it seems that their behavior is the same? Lying and creating fights. What is the motivation when they aren't drinking? Is it just a selfish mode that they are always in?