Lexapro - took for 2 years. No sex drive, no high/lows - didn't really have much emotion at all. Did help with anxiety tho'.
Wellbutrin - mmmm...had a sex drive but had lots of trouble having an orgasm. So the will and desire was there but I almost hurt myself a few times trying to finish it up.
It made me very anxious. (I have ADHD so don't let me saying it gave me axiety worry you...drugs affect me funny)
Did not stay on it very long.