I think they need someone to be mad at to justify their own anger and bad behaviour. I think that they don't know how to handle "acceptance" on our part and that none of the buttons they used to push function anymore. I think this is all about them and has nothing to do with us, good days or bad.
Marle, you have always been an inspiration to me, how your serenity just lets you accept "what is" and how you move on to the next best place to be...out of the line of fire.
And Moose has always made me sit tall because I need to learn from her recovery too, and how to say hmmm and oh? and uh-huh.
So today I am cheering you other moms on, you are amazing and shining so brightly it's melting the snow.