Originally Posted by
happysoul 
i just have to let it go and believe that his hp is on top of this situation and certainly doesn't need my help
So true. My way of fixing things didn't work for 16+ yrs. Once I let go of the situation, HP was able to work on things. This is still an area I struggle with, but at least I *know* I'm doing it now and can talk myself out of it, where as before I did things to help without knowing I was enabling.
Sending Hugs, Cindi. It's tough seeing them when the disease has taken over completely. You know their life is unmanageable, they know it too, but are unable to take back control. Sending you prayers of strength and courage to do what you have to do.