I just wanted to give a quick update...
16 months after getting out of Prison and starting this thread AH is worse than hes ever been, no longer being clean even 48 hours, drinking on average 5 bottles of liquor a week, lost another job (they are always gone between 3 to 6 weeks of irregular work) has to misdemenor FTA for paraphanalia and driving on revoked in another state, they wont extradite so hes not picked up here.
I filed papers today to have him involuntarily committed, it takes time, I plan to follow it through, for me, my last resort. Included with what he is being served with is a diary of teh last six months and how truly insane and unmanageable his life is