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Old 02-18-2008, 10:26 AM
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ARealLady
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Alcoholics listen to actions

Don't hedge your bets. In my own case, NO contact continues to work for me but XABF continues to try to weasle through my defence system. It's been over 6 months now but he keeps trying.

My actions as determined by my boundaries are there for me. I am not trying to "prove" anything to anyone so if XABF is paying attention to my actions why is he still trying to break through? Rhetorical question. People who have no boundaries have no respect for other people's boundaries. Bottom line? It is all about the A.

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