Lexus~
Don't bother with this man for another second. Be thankful that he is a boyfriend and not a husband.
Run from this man, don't answer his calls, don't look at him, don't give him another moment of your time or your precious words.
You deserve better and need to figure out how to realize it. It only matters how YOU see yourself. You know how the saying goes...you teach people how to treat you.
Alcoholics listen to actions....not words. Detach, let go and move on.