Originally Posted by
MzAddy 
Given the chance, he'd find some twisted justification of how I am responsible for yours too!
Now not even I would have thought of that one and my list was long.
Once I found recovery, I found that "I" was my problem.
Just so happens that I moved out and for the life of me couldn't figure out why her problems came with me. Then one day the lighbulb came on...I am my own problem.
We can all use improvement and your part in things may only be 1% and her part 99% as it was in my case.
Work on your 1% and let her work on her 99%.
You will be better off for it...you will improve that 1%.