Hi, thanks for sharing your story here...You are a wonderful friend to be so concerned about her. I do agree with the others; there is no magic fix and she really does have to want this for herself. It sounds like your GF has been through a lot; I'm sure she appreciates your support. But please don't loose yourself in the process..as Linda said that's where talking with other people who have been through what you are experiencing can help. I'm sure her parents are very concerned and if there is any possibility that you can share your fears with them or another supportive adult (like a school counselor perhaps) they may be able to provide more support too and help her get help. I hope you will keep reading and posting...Sending lots of positive thoughts to both of you.