NOW I happen to think that you and Mr. Moose would make fabulous grandparents.
Gramoose?
Perhaps you are just where you are supposed to be, Moosie... away from home and away from the drama. Perhaps this is one of those times that your son is supposed to handle all of his own stuff.
Maybe, just maybe, there is a bigger plan that we don't know about. It happens... it's happened to me!
Hugs and love
Cats