I couldn't believe it. The attorney I was referred to yesterday was a complete bozo. I told him I wanted to establish that I had sole custody of my son. He told me I had to establish paternity first. DOHHH! I thought my exs name on the birth certificate was enough to do that. Then he told me that I needed to consider my xbf's feelings while he was in jail. That he had rights too! And I shouldn't kick him when he was down. LMAO! Isn't that freakin' outrageous!!!! MEN!