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Old 02-12-2008, 07:21 AM
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Pick-a-name
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Ohio
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Welcome! Glad you found us;this place has been my haven!

I understand the feelings you describe,too. My exAH and I were married 27yr (and 2 kids) when he decided I "was the problem/made him drink/kids made him drink....." blah,blah,blah....... Truth is he didn't want to stop drinking;so one day he announced he was moving out and he somewhat recently divorced me. (Now he is even more mixed-up,if that is possible.....and it is! ha)

I still try to "understand" what happened and there is no logic to it;alcoholism is not about logical thinking. It effects thinking!

Stick around;read and post,vent....it all helps. I found the Getting Them Sober books and Under the Influence a great help in starting to wrap my head around some of the things going on,too.

Sorry you are hurting, but glad you are here.
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