My AH and I are in the process of a divorce. He is more inconsiderate now that he has stopped drinking than ever before. Yes, and I am the selfish one I am being told. It didnt matter to me whether he continued to drink or not, I was done. My life and the future of being with him was too much for me to continue. My AH has stopped drinking but is not actively working a program. He blames me and says that I gave up. 15 years of drinking was all I could give. Please post your thoughts and do not feel like a whiner. We have all been where you are or are currently there.
Take care of yourself.