Originally Posted by
ChristinaMarie I recently met an amazing man, we had a meeting like that out of a movie, and immediately hit it off with one another.
This is a red flag extraordinaire. I would examine it and what it triggered in me. My AH (I think I'm going through the longest divorce in history here) has a great track record in the "romantic movie" hook up, even while we were married LOL. Addicts are extremely talented at hooking in enablers.
I think Al-Anon is a great idea. I'd also listen when he tells you he needs to focus on his recovery. Looking back over 18 years, I realize AH told me
exactly who he was in the first few weeks we knew each other.
Welcome to SR and I hope you keep posting. There is a lot of experience, strength and hope here.