Barbara52 - I did it. I visualised and thought of other things. Time flew by. I just got a txt from my husband. I could understand it. We had a txt conversation and i still didn't call him to double check or listen to the tailtell signs. I answered his questions and asked him to put the thermostate on to heat the water. I didn't ask how he was or anything...Bloody hard...I'm not 100% convinced...but I'm allowing myself to hope!