I was all for staying out of it till my doctor told me I couldn't. When my AH admitted to keeping drugs in the car where our 9yr old could easily find them my doctor said I had to take an active roll. Which meant I had to require him to have random drug tests if he was to stay in our home. Plain and simple. I have young kids to worry about, who might find these drugs. I will not have an active user in my home. If he tests positive he is out. My children have to come first. The decision will tear me apart but it will have to be made and he knows it already. He was there when my doctor discussed it with me. He was a part of the discussion so he can't say he doesn't know and he can't say he doesn't know why either.
Nikki