The truth as sad as it may be most alcoholics have to be pretty badly mangled before they really commence to solve their problems. I don’t know if you read the Big Book at all but in Chapter 3 pg 39 it gives a description of an alcoholic named Fred. It describes Fred as having a good income, a fine home, married with children. Well Fred would be considered a high bottom drunk but he still ended up getting this program. Skid row isn’t a requirement for membership. The last I knew the only requirement for membership was a desire to stop drinking. If you have that desire then there is a solution…..
My sponsor called me hopeless he was right I was, good luck…