I realize you don't cut anymore....I am still concerned..See, I try to work the acoa program in my life and I realize that *the past affects me today*..
I fully realize that you are capable of taking care of yourself...I trust you will take all appropriate measures..
I care alot about fellow acoas..but hey..thats who I am and I accept who I am today..unlike in the past when I *beat myself up*, or told myself "don't get involved"
"don't say that" "try not to care so much..ect.".
When I was new to the program, I got alot out of the advice given by those individuals who were willing to "go out on a limb" and tell me what they really thought..
Just my 2 cents....Take what you like and leave the rest...
Love to my al-anon family,
Growing