Duct tape! hahaha I'll keep that in mind. I'm not really worried with her mom being upset with me because I stop letting her get to me a long time ago. I am more concerned with how my GF is taking all this and like you all said, I should focus on her. I don't think I want to try and reconcile with her mother because I cannot be friends with someone I can't respect and hypocritical. I certainly won't try to "fix" things anymore. But I do pray that some day she'll see the error in her ways for her and her daughter's sake. Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it