Originally Posted by
Cynay 
:no matter how much I know I have made good choices about endings.... it still hurts
Amen to that! I was watching the movie Hope Floats the other day -- at the end Sandra Bullock's character says something about liking the "middle" part of relationships -- because the endings are sad and the beginnings are scary. Even if the ending was our choice, it is still sad.
And, Hadenough, I am following right behind you to the lawyer's office. I am going to finally finish the paperwork by the end of this weekend and get the ball rolling next week. I am expecting the same reaction from my AH -- "I didn't do anything wrong!"