Welcome to SR....
I too am the Mother of 2 adult alcoholics/ addicts
Don't be as trusting as I was.
Put your good jewelry in a safe deposit box
or never take it off.
Cash and credit cards check books and car keys
Cameras and anything valuable will be at risk.
I finally severed contact to preserve my sanity
I let them go and let God take care of them.
Blessings to all of you