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Old 12-26-2007, 03:31 PM
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Mair
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Wales
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Bounderies V Cancer

How do i do this???he still drinks. I cannot tolerate the drinking no matter what, but i feel so cold and heartless when i walk away now. I love him and am scared of losing him to cancer, i know he is scared and what he does when he is scared, sad, happy etc is drink.

He is in hospital tonight having the tumour removed tomorrow. I should be able to have normal emotions shouldnt i, but i cant do this because of his other diseace (alcoholism) I would like to make the most of our time left but the drinking will rob me of that too.

Im so sorry for this post, i know it's a sensitive question to ask you all but i value your opinions, my question is how do i set bounderies with an alcoholic who has cancer.

Mair xx
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