Originally Posted by
Babs 
We are the ones who have to be strong enough, smart enough and self-caring enough to keep them from hurting us. They do not have the capability to protect us from their chaos. Only we do.
Good quote to remember!
Hi sadness,
Glad you are having such a nice Christmas. My sister-in-law actually almost didn't get in the first time she visited my AH in prison. She wore short shorts. Luckily, they were the rollup kind and she was able to roll them down and still get in, but they told her next time to cover up more because they wouldn't let her in like that again. Anyway, like jeans and t-shirts or the like (nothing low cut) should be fine. Like Babs said, we have to leave purses in the car too... only thing allowed is keys and ID. I've visited in places that had drink machines, so you could bring change for those just in case. But thats about it.