Wow, just what does a "kick-a**" coat look like? lol
I am so glad that the day went well and I just love what you said:
It is funny how much better things can be when I am not trying to control her or the outcome.
Boy, ain't it the truth!!! I found that out, too. I just took the best of what my AD gave and because I don't try to control anything but my actions and my reactions. It's so much better.
My dear, you have come a very long way, just like me.
Hugs,
Marteen