Originally Posted by
jimhere 
"Truth without love is cruelty and confrontation without a real answer is brutality."
Thank you for such a wonderful quote. My faith tells me to speak the truth in love. Unfortunately, my lack of patience with others who are "stuck" can sometimes make me come across as harsh or blunt. A real answer? I will have to ponder on that one. I confront my AH when I need to set boundaries. Why? Because the real answer is I can only take so much of his alcoholic nonsense, and then I have to draw the line for my own sanity. Is that the real answer for me? Yes. Is that the real answer for him? Unfortunately, no.