welcome to S.R. my son is my addict. i gave & gave to him. i bailed him out of jail, paid for rehabs., lawyers & did everything i could to save him. until i found recovery for myself that is what i thought i was doing. today i know i was just helping him kill himself. you can not save an addict. they have to want to "swim" for themselves. you & your family can not do anything for your sister but let her fall, only then will she get up & get well. some never do. pray for her & her family & i will do the same. i am sorry for what you all are going thru. prayers, hope